To qualify; I am an alienated father of three daughters 27, 24 and 20 years old, I am also an alienated grandfather. (WE QUALIFY AT EACH PA-A.ORG SUPPORT GROUP MEETING BEFORE WE SHARE OUR THOUGHTS FOR THE DAY)
This year the addition of my Parental Alienation Anonymous support group meetings and community has been life changing. I have a community I see SEVERAL TIMES A WEEK ON ZOOM CALLS, and I also have folks that I text and exchange calls with daily.
I have support that MY family and friends could not provide. I do not need to explain my feelings and or behaviors that are associated with Parental Alienation (PA), what a relief. The meetings are structured with a leader and secretary. There is a script that they follow in order to keep the meeting safe and orderly. It is a place of recovery, a place we get to tell our stories and also work on our emotionally and spiritual recovery. Every one has 3 minutes to share and 1 minute to wrap up.
THE MEETINGS are a place of hope and change. In the context of systems theory in general and family systems in particular, the number one leverage point is the individual. That means you and I are the most important leverage point (intervention point) in our family systems. We have to be the healthiest version of ourselves when we engage with the system. I used to try get everyone to listen to me, to understand all the trauma and drama and help me get my kids back. I was operating from a reactive fragmented place. I exasperated the situation often and lost opportunities to create sustainable change. I was responsible for so much of the carnage. Today with the help of the 12 steps of PA-A.org I show up from a grounded, integrated space most of the time. Attorneys, therapists, judges and other folks no longer view me as a emotionally reactive threat. I am now able to contribute to the solution. I wish I would have had a community like this in my early days of PA it would have made a world of difference.
I am looking at the website to try to find the phone list and the sign up for service positions. Can someone direct me to them? Thanks.
HI Jim,
You are already on the phone list and an email was sent out awhile ago with access I will resend it today. Makes sure to double check your spam. You can respond to the email with service positions you are interested in and we can set up a zoom call after that to discuss options.
thank u for reaching out
I would like to attend one of these meetings
HI Justin, You are on the email list, when you receive the email weekly please look at the meeting times and convert them to your time zone. Then click on the link at the appropriate time.
hope to see you around.
I would like I formation for zoom meetings. Have been alienated over 10 years due to their drug use and father. Problems coping.
You have been added to the weekly emails:))
Lol you people can’t actually talk to any human that is normal. Blame it on the spouse, blame it on the kids. How about being straight up with your kids. Say you screwed up. But no you guys are special. Keep it up, kids are always wrong.
Sounds like you are really hurt and angry. Guessing you are struggling with a relationship in your life. I’m sorry you are going through this. I agree sometimes people can’t take responsibility for their actions and this creates more harm.
There are new meetings starting for folks that choose to not be in contact with their parents, grandparents and other family members this might be useful to check out if your interested in other resources.
thanks for your comment and have a great day.
I’d like to have weekly emails and meeting times
You should have just received an automated email with all the meeting information. hope to see you in the meetings
Please add me to the email list
I suggest attending meetings. You will get to meet other people struggling with similar circumstances and to to gain access to a bunch of different resources. All meetings are on zoom and accessible from anywhere.
You can register on the website to the pop-up and get added to the weekly email lists or you can send an email to Parentalalienationanonymous@Gmail.com with any other questions.
I hope to see you at a meeting. Have a beautiful day.
I am systematically being erased and it’s killing me.
HI Kris,
It’s a horrendous situation for us all. It sounds like you are really struggling with the loss. Guessing some support would be useful? Our groups are great, they help build community and a solid base for regaining a semblance of control of your life. Sign up on the contact form on the web site, if this might be useful.
support
Please send me the link for zoom meetings. Been alienated from my two teenage children for 4 years now from my narcissistic ex husband and his new wife.
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Hi, I’d like to join the PST meeting for today, but I’m not finding where to get the sign in info. If someone could point me in . right direction or email it to me before the start, it would be much appreciated. Thanks!
I am dealing with adult children who I have been alienated from due to the lies and manipulations of their father. It seems like the people around me don’t want to touch the issue which compounds the hurt and loneliness.
HI Kathleen,
Sounds really hard and frustrating. WE have a great community of parents, grandparents & other relatives at our meetings. You would benefit in getting some consistent support I would guess. Fill out the contact form to get added.
support
When will law come in to punish people for this disgusting action of abuse
HI Dallas,
Their are folks out there doing some great work on this front. Hopefully we see something soon:))
I would like to attend one of these meetings please.
HI Arnie,
I have added you to the weekly email with meeting times and links. I also emailed you links for this week, please check your inbox.
hope to see you at a meeting
Can you send me a link to the zoom meeting?
already sent a couple minutes ago please check your email
The community is awesome & supportive. I added you to the weekly email list with meeting times and links plus some other info.
hope to see you at a meeting
I am trying to figure out if these meetings are in person or remote. I would like to attend to learn and share my experience.
Thank you
HI Inna,
we would love to have you join our community. It really is a beautiful place of support, shared reality and a place to grow emotionally and spiritually. I will add you to the email list, all meetings are currently on zoom. 7 meetings a week, 6 days a week. Try some different ones as participants and topics vary.
You will have an email in your in box in 30 minutes , please check your spam if you don’t see it.
happy days:))
HI Kelsey,
It would be great to have you volunteer once you try some meetings and make sure the community resonates with you. I will send you an email directly. You can sign up through the pop up or the contact page.
happy day
Hi – I am interested in starting meetings
– please send me the links
Thank you -Corey
Hi Corey,
You have been added to 1x weekly email list with all the information you will need.
hope to see you around:)
I have been dealing with this for almost three years now and only recently came to understand this is a phenomenon beyond my personal one. I would love to get involved and share what I can to help others as well as myself to find some peace and healing amid this incredibly painful and tortuous challenge. I am currently on day 773 of consecutive days with at least one meditation session. I am trying to use this as a spur for positive growth. Please let me know when meetings are.
Sounds like you are getting a lot of relief out of meditation. YAY U
An email went out to you on Wednesday with meeting information and links. Please check your spam if you don’t see it.
I would like to be sent the weekly links for the meetings, if you can please.needing support. And also to be signed up for the newsletter.. cannot find the sign-up link? Can you please assist. Thank you very much.
Best,
Ella
I’m feeling a lot of fear around joining this group. I’m afraid I will only harm myself by engaging my thoughts and emotions around the loss of my children, but maybe I’m wrong and this is exactly what I need. My situation is 100% my responsibility to manage, but less than 10% my fault. I am a victim and my children are victims and pretending that’s not true is just that, pretending. Please tell me if this is a group founded on self-blame because I will only “Monday morning quarter-back” myself so far. Thank you.
The group is a great place to work on yourself and start your healing process. It is not easy and it is incredible rewarding. When Im alone with my thoughts only I tend to exasperate all challanging areas in my life. I added you to the group email, please check your email or spam.
hope to see you at a meeting
Hi, How do I join a group? I can’t seem to find the zoom link, Thanks in advance for some help, Mark
please check your spam, weekly emails have been going out to you with all the meeting info. I also sent you an email today with a copy of the last email.
I would love to attend meetings in my area or on zoom. Please email me information. Thank you.
please check your email for links and meetings times….
I would like to attend these meetings please.
please check your email for links and meetings times….
Are there in groups in atlanta ga
Sorry no groups in person. I would suggest trying some zoom meetings as there are plenty of folks from your region of the country. I will email you some info:))
Could you please send me a zoom link for your meetings? I’d like to try a few.
please check your email for meeting information.
Please include me in your meetings.
you have been added, please check your email:))
Would like to attend the next zoom meeting
you have been added, please check your email:))
I would like to attend meetings and start a support group based in Maine.
It would be great to have in person meetings in Maine. Please attend some zoom meetings and then reach out and I will be happy to get you all the information to start an in person meeting.
When are zoom meetings and can i get a link?
please check your email:))
welcome to the group
Interested in being a part of these meetings. Thank you
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Hello,
I would like to join the meetings for this group. Please send me the info or link.
Thanks so much!
Laura
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I would love to join the zoom meetings!
Where do I register?
please check your email for information.
How do I join a zoom meeting online/ how can I get a link
please check your email for information……
Hello!
I would like to join the PAA GROUP and attend much needed meetings..
Thank you,
Mel
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Looking to join a support group of parents who have been alienated from their children.
Hi, I am having trouble finding the links to the PA Zoom meetings. Can you help?
Thank y
please check your email or spam for links
I would really like to join the zoom meetings.
Thank you!
please check your email/spam for meeting info
I would like info on joining zoom meetings, thank you!
please check your email/spam for meeting info
I have been alienated from my oldest son by my narcissistic ex-husband for 3 years now. My son doesn’t contact me and barely sees me. The grief is unbearable and now I’m terrified he will try to alienate my youngest son who his very close to me. I need help and support. I feel
Ike I’m stuck in a never ending grief cycle. Please help.
Karin Rexrode
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I would really like to join the zoom meetings. If I can get the link, that would be so appreciated.
Thanks, Cheryl
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Please send information on joining online group
please check your email/spam for meeting info
please check your email/spam for meeting information and welcome to the community.
Please provide info for me to attend meetings
please check your email/spam for meeting information and welcome to the community.
I would love to join an online group please!!
please check your email/spam for meeting information and welcome to the community.
Interested in this support group.
please check your spam/email for meeting details and welcome to the community
I’d like to get a date and time for your next meeting. I’m new to this it’ll be my first time joining.
Much appreciated.
please check your email/spam for links and community updates. welcome to the community:)
Please let me know how to join. Thank you. I didn’t even know there was a place like this that existed.
please check your email/spam for links and community updates. welcome to the community:)
I would love to join your group. I’ve been experiencing parental alienation since 2016. Still going through it. Glad to find group.
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May I join this group?
please check your email/spam for links and community updates. welcome to the community:)
I am interested in this group and desperate to get some help!
you should received an automated email with all the information. hope to see you in the meetings
Hello, I am interested in attending a meeting. Thank you.
you should received an automated email with all the information. hope to see you in the meetings
Please send link to join today. Thank you.
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Information about the meetings please
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Good morning. I am interested in attending a meeting
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I am a grandma looking to get visitation of granddaughter back. Ex son in law lied in court false accusing me but I was not there to defend myself. Why doesn’t the court system require proof before accepting claims? Are there zoom meetings or a program I can attend that will help me get these rights back?
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I would like to join a support group.
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I’m struggling; I’m interested in seeing if this context can help me.
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Hello,
I am interested in attending a meeting. Thank you.
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I am interested in attending meetings.
Thank you
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I am interested in attentding a PA zoom meeting. Please let me know.
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I would like to attend meetings
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I haven’t received anything
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Please provide information for support groups. Myself & wife are estranged from my daughter and 2 grandchildren and very much need support to get us thru. Thank You
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I’ve been trying to start therapy and want to start attending these meetings. How and where do I connect??
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The law failed my husband with his daughter who is now age of majority.
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I’d like to join a support group
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Would like to sign up for a meeting
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I would very much like to be a part of this group
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Hi,
Please tell me how I can start attending meetings.
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Where is meeting link?
You should have just received an automated email with all the meeting information. hope to see you in the meetings
How do I sign up for these meetings?
Once you fill in the contact page on this website you will receive an automated email with all the meeting information. If it isn’t in your main mailbox please check spam, social and promotions. If you still can’t find it please email parentalalienationanonymous@gmail.com.
Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
Where is the link for the Monday, 5/29/23 meeting?
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I would like to join meetings
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Please send meeting information.
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I live in Fort Lauderdale FL di u know any group closer to me
All meetings are currently on zoom but there are folks in the Fl area at meetings. Once you fill in the contact page on this website you will receive an automated email with all the meeting information. If it isn’t in your main mailbox please check spam, social and promotions. If you still can’t find it please email parentalalienationanonymous@gmail.com.
Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
I would like to join as well. How do I sign up?
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I need help..my heart breaks everyday..please send me a link to go to meetings
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I would like to join meetings.
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Are there any IL meetings? Five years of hell, I’m ready for moving on and having peace.
All meetings are currently on zoom, but there are folks from your region of the country on meetings. Once you fill in the contact page on this website you will receive an automated email with all the meeting information. If it isn’t in your main mailbox please check spam, social and promotions. If you still can’t find it please email parentalalienationanonymous@gmail.com.
Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
I would like more information
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I have been allienated not only from my adult daughter, she also has influenced my 26 yr old great grandson who has autism, my adult granddaughter, and my 12 yr old great granddaughter, to cut me out of all visits and all communication. I am completely alone except for several friends that I love, but really do not feel that I can communicate the pain involved. I am suffering physical pain from a failed hip replacement, but the emotional and mental pain is so much worse.
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Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
where can i find link to meeting?
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This sounds very interesting and new to me. Currently I do not have Facebook nor do I have Instagram. Is my anonymity protected on these platforms? Presently I am in another 12-step program and occasionally go to zoom meetings or in person meetings. Are there any zoom and in person meetings available at this time? I live in Malvern, Pennsylvania, 19355
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Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
Unfortunately I am technically challenged. Is there any way you can print out the days the times of the meetings?
I keep going round and round and not getting the information I need.
Also, I’m in another 12-step program and they have a printout of the dates and times that you can attend the meetings. Do I have to go on facebook or Instagram or can I just zoom a meeting like in my other programs?
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Have not received the automated email.
Shelly
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Hello. I think i have signed up twice to receive notice of support group meetings and have not received any info. I am finding it hard to navigate to find the meetings that I so desperately need. Thank you
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If you still can’t find it please email parentalalienationanonymous@gmail.com & we will help you get on the meetings.
Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
Looking to join the group and my wife is too.
Request to receive email list of meetings
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If you still can’t find it please email parentalalienationanonymous@gmail.com & we will help you get on the meetings.
Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
Looking for meetings
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We have been separated over one year now and I have been alienated all that time from our sons (17yrs old and 12yrs old) and I have not seen them since. On March 6, 2023 I hired a family law lawyer to divorce her, she has caused nothing but delays and back/forth between lawyers, I am glad I have a nice lawyer but she is fed up with my ex and my lawyer titles her as a difficult person. Last month my ex agreed to through her family law lawyer to have family reunification therapy for our sons but 2 weeks ago she called the social worker and caused chaos so whatever she said to the social worker – they advised me that they do not want to deal with me ever again. I am being erased from existence and soon the boys will not know that I exist. For over one month the boys are not replying my text messages and treating me very differently. This is not right what she is doing to me and if the tables were turned, I would never turn the boys against her.
Throughout the separation she has financially abused (she stole over $10,000), emotionally abused me. I was able to find out that she has been doing this all throughout our relationship ie: she would judge all the work friends I could have had in the past so I gave up those work friendship and gave her all the attention and now that hurts because I have no support. She took all my remainder of my friends away from me and have no one.
Growing up I had a lot of childhood trauma and in 2019 diagnosed with PTSD, adjustment disorder, anxiety and depression. I have been married for 21yrs and neglected all that time she or my sons, friends did not get not get familiar with my invisible disabilities.
I have been on LTD since Feb 2023, I am isolated and alone so recovery is rough.
I suggest you try attending some meetings. At least 5-6 to see how they feel.
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If you still can’t find it please email parentalalienationanonymous@gmail.com & we will help you get on the meetings.
Hope to see you in the zoom meetings.
Hi I am part of the Facebook messenger group and would love to attend the zoom meetings please. Thank you.
Great, welcome to the community
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Parental alienation
How do I get to a PA meeting. Thank you.
are there parental alienaton meetings on zoom. Can you direct me to a link. Thank you.
Hi I am an alienated mum. Iv had no contact for 3 years.
The courts dont believe me.
My daughter was 15 yesterday.
I’m so alone and struggling and no one in ny life understands the pain.
Hello
I seem to remember filling out this form before. I haven’t received anything in my Spam or Inbox. I am having trouble scheduling my first meeting. Since starting this process I have become very anxious (more anxious than before) so please forgive me if I have sent numerous emails – I’m just doing my best to start the healing process.
Kind regards
Hi I would like the information on the zoom link for the support group. My son is 14 and alienated for 8 months.
I did visit once and when I heard what others had to say and they’re crying, I couldn’t handle it. I’d really like to try because I, too, need help.
I’m not sure if my daughters and I were victims of parental alienation. Their father and his mother did some really damaging things up to this day my kids are 22 and 19 threatening my youngest with eviction if she was hanging out with me. Moving them 20 miles away when I lost my car. And there’s much more I could use some help
I suggest attending meetings. You will get to meet other people struggling with similar circumstances and to to gain access to a bunch of different resources. All meetings are on zoom and accessible from anywhere.
You can register on the website to the pop-up and get added to the weekly email lists or you can send an email to Parentalalienationanonymous@Gmail.com with any other questions.
I hope to see you at a meeting. Have a beautiful day.
I have been the target of my exes abuse for ten years . He has turned my daughter so against me . It’s gotten worse . It’s so hard to live with out her and he talked her into saying in court she doesn’t want me . So the judge granted him the primary parent . This is terrible she has to grow up without me because he’s a narcissist. I’m even paying support.
I suggest attending meetings. You will get to meet other people struggling with similar circumstances and to to gain access to a bunch of different resources. All meetings are on zoom and accessible from anywhere.
You can register on the website to the pop-up and get added to the weekly email lists or you can send an email to Parentalalienationanonymous@Gmail.com with any other questions.
I hope to see you at a meeting. Have a beautiful day.
Hello,
Living in a PA situation is a living hell. I need answers and tools to survive this emotional turmoil.
I suggest attending meetings. You will get to meet other people struggling with similar circumstances and to to gain access to a bunch of different resources. All meetings are on zoom and accessible from anywhere.
You can register on the website to the pop-up and get added to the weekly email lists or you can send an email to Parentalalienationanonymous@Gmail.com with any other questions.
I hope to see you at a meeting. Have a beautiful day.
I am in desperate need of a support group around parent alienation and am filled with hope to have found this website. Thank you.
I suggest attending meetings. You will get to meet other people struggling with similar circumstances and to to gain access to a bunch of different resources. All meetings are on zoom and accessible from anywhere.
You can register on the website to the pop-up and get added to the weekly email lists or you can send an email to Parentalalienationanonymous@Gmail.com with any other questions.
I hope to see you at a meeting. Have a beautiful day.
Hello,
I did attend my first meeting weeks ago, but not sure if I am on the mailing list. Also would like to get information on finding a sponsor. Thanks for all you are doing to help others who are suffering in this rare and painful phenomena of parenthood.
Hi out there,
I suggest attending some more meetings. At every meeting they share a link on how to find a sponsor or join a sponsorship pod. You can also join the newcomers whatsapp chat to ask any questions and get quick answers from the volunteers.
You can also email parentalaienationanonymous@gmail.com with questions.
Hope to see you around the meetings.